Finding Space

I thought a new blog was in order to write about more personal things than my travels and the misadventures of my cat. This space will be for me to write about my recovery from PTSD, and talking through my need for change as a social worker. I have always found comfort in writing about things, some on paper, and some on my blogs. Since my first blog in 2003, I have changed and evolved how and what I wrote on the many blogs that I have carried for years. Only two are current now - this one and my adventure blog. The others are still available, but they will have no new pots.

So here is the space for social work, burnout, mental health, vicarious trauma, and who knows what else. I plan to write and possibly try my hand at video blogging (vlog). People often need to connect with a face in order to take in the message, so I want to give it a try and see how it goes.

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